Gay dating second date
You might feel scared that you are out of his league and feel that you need to over compensate with exaggerations about your life.But if you want a first date to lead onto a second date and then a third, it is imperative that you are honest right from the outset.Sometimes we meet the wrong people, choose a bad venue or fall head over heels with someone who just wants to be friends.While the common dating ‘rules’ – not that I believe in rules – can apply to anybody, there are perhaps a few things we, as gay guys, need to pay a little more attention to.Don’t get hung up on tops and bottoms or everything in between Yes, you know what you like, but if you’re looking for a relationship, it’s not just about what goes where and who’ll be standing on their head or whatever.If you like someone enough, open your mind to other possibilities.Slurring your words is so not a sexy look, and it might be a good idea to switch that fifth pint to a glass of water. Talk about ex boyfriends Those first couple of dates after you have recently broken up with someone can be really tough.It is a great idea to put your best food forward and get out there and meet some new guys – because they’re not all jerks, promise.
If you’re white, don’t say you’re “really into black guys”. You’re objectifying a person with no thought for what else he might have to offer.
Forget their sexual past Yes, plenty of us have been around a bit, but don’t let it play on your mind when on a date with a new guy.
As far as you’re concerned, this is Day One – only wasteland came before it.
Whether we’re into bears, jocks or geeks, sometimes our narrow search criteria holds us back.
Having fixed ideas of what you want – which usually boil down to looks and little else – could be standing in your way of meeting some great guys.